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 July 2005 Dear Georgia, I live in a flat with a few friends and recently we have been fighting a lot, the feeling in the flat is very strained and I wondered if there was anything you could do to help us? Yours sincerely , Shirley, Essex Dear Shirley, Sharing flats and houses can be the best of experiences or the worst, so don’t give yourself too much of a hard time. These phases normally pass, but here are a few things that could help you to bring harmony to the flat Plants : camomile, rosemary and basil are all excellent at bringing peace, tranquillity, protection and prosperity to any house. Candles : have a few calming colours in the bathroom and lounge to allow you all to relax either together or alone. If you like scented candles, go for calm soft scents like lavender and vanilla. Talk : make time everyday to talk to each other, not about the issues of the flat or who stole who’s lipstick, but about things that happened outside, ask for advice and opening up will allow you all to feel closer to each other. Altar : If you’re all Wiccan, then a communal altar that you can all use could be a good way of bringing you altogether in harmony. Thoughts : think of your flat mates and do things for then without expecting anything in return. Perhaps if you occasionally did some of their laundry (if you’re not washing machine illiterate) they’d be really grateful. Wash the dishes or put out the rubbish. Put all these things into place and I’ve no doubt that your situation will improve. Blessed Be, Georgia. :: Letters Archive |