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February 2005

Dear Georgia

I am having serious problems with my mum. We seem to argue all the time about everything. From clothes to make-up, how messy my room is to what I say. Please help me before I go mad, I really love her a lot.

Blessings

Lisa, Hull


Dear Lisa,

If I say to you that we’ve all been there, it isn’t going to help, but its true; we have and I’m sure that when your mum is arguing with you she can remember going through the exact same thing herself with her mum. However, what we need to do is help you stop the arguments, so here’s a spell to help bring you closer together and smooth the waters.

Things you’ll need:

2 white candles, (one to represent yourself and the other to represent you mum).**
1 red ribbon, (to represent the love you have for each other).
1 pinch of basil, (for a happy family).
7 small sticks, (to represent the days of the week).
1 pin, (to inscribe your candles).

I want you to start your spell 6 days before the full moon, so if you cast it in February, start on the 18th as the full moon is on the 24th.

Take your white candles and inscribe the image of a stick person on each candle, writing your name on one and your mother’s on the other. Write the words Love, Understanding, and Time on each candle. These are the things you need to give to each other.

Place the ribbon on a flat surface.
Lay your 7 sticks side by side along the length of the ribbon.
Place your candles at each end of the row of sticks, ensuring that they rest on top of the ends of the ribbon.
Now you’re ready to start, firstly cast your circle. Click here for our simple circle casting guide.

Light your candles, and recite these words:

Love and time is what we seek,
Understanding both our needs,
Stop the arguments in their tracks,
Make them go and not come back,
I love my mum and she loves me,
And harm ye none so mote it be.


Spend a few minutes thinking about things you could do to make this spell work then remove one of the sticks and place it outside your candles, moving your candles a little closer together. Blow out your candles after a few minutes (never leaving them unattended). Each time you do this, leave your spell undisturbed afterwards each time until the next day.

You must repeat this for a whole week until on the full moon you have only one stick left.
On the last night of your spell do the same as before but your candles will now be touching. When you’ve spent a few minutes visualising yourself and your mum together and happy, take your basil, sprinkle it onto the candles and say these works:

For free will of all,
And harm to none
As I have willed it,
So shall it be done,
Blessed Be.

Now you can blow out your candles. Put them and the 7 sticks together and tie them in a bundle with the red ribbon. Put them away somewhere safe and when it feels like things are getting too much, you can look at them and know everything will be ok.

Blessed Be

Georgia

**If you aren’t allowed to use candles, then replace them with stones. Wash them and write on them with felt tip following the instructions as for the candles.

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